8PM PST: OPTIONAL, CO-ED: BIBLE STUDY, POTLUCK, FILM, LAYING DOWN WRATH AT THE CROSS
Take a moment to carefully read each of the passages listed. Begin by reflecting on the specific language and themes presented in these verses. Pay attention to how they address anger and its transformation through surrender to God. As you read, ask the Holy Spirit to reveal areas in your life where these truths need to take root. Once everyone has read through the scriptures, spend a few minutes in silence, allowing space for personal reflection before the group discussion begins.
As you move into the group questions, encourage an open and honest dialogue. Start by identifying key takeaways from the passages and how they resonate with your personal experiences. Share how these scriptures challenge or encourage you when dealing with anger, whether it’s righteous indignation or sinful wrath. Use the questions as a guide, but feel free to expand the conversation around practical steps for applying these truths in daily life—whether through prayer, humility, or acts of grace. The goal is to collectively lean on God’s Word for wisdom and find freedom in laying down wrath at the cross.
Ephesians 4:26-27 (ESV): "Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil."
Psalm 37:8-9 (ESV): "Refrain from anger, and forsake wrath! Fret not yourself; it tends only to evil. For the evildoers shall be cut off, but those who wait for the Lord shall inherit the land."
Proverbs 15:1 (ESV): "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."
James 1:19-20 (ESV): "Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God."
Colossians 3:8-10 (ESV): "But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth. Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator."
Romans 12:19-21 (ESV): "Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, ‘Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.’ To the contrary, ‘if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.’ Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
GROUP DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
Ephesians 4 calls us to “be angry and do not sin.” How do you differentiate between righteous anger and sinful anger in your own life?
Psalm 37 speaks about “fretting” leading to evil. When you find yourself consumed by worry or anger, how does waiting on the Lord shift your perspective?
Proverbs 15 highlights the power of gentle words. Share an experience when a soft answer diffused a situation of anger or wrath.
James 1 reminds us that anger doesn’t produce the righteousness of God. How can we practically turn to Christ to guide our reactions in moments of frustration?
Colossians calls us to “put away” wrath and malice. What are some ways to actively replace these emotions with kindness and humility in everyday life?
Romans 12 encourages us to leave vengeance to God. Why do you think surrendering your anger to Him is tied to trusting in His justice and plan?
What role does prayer play in displacing feelings of wrath, and how can it act as a practical tool in moments of rage?
Righteous anger motivates change without sin. How can we ensure our anger leads to godly action and not harmful retaliation?
Think of a situation where God helped you to “overcome evil with good” rather than giving in to anger. What was the result of your obedience in that moment?
How does remembering the forgiveness and grace we receive through Christ transform the way we respond to those who provoke or hurt us?
Through the weight of the scriptures and the work of the Spirit, may we find freedom by casting the heavy burden of anger onto Christ, trusting that He is sufficient to carry it all.
Potluck and Movie Night Instructions
We're gathering for an unforgettable evening filled with laughter, comfort food, and an inspirational film that will leave your heart full. Bring your appetite and your favorite soul food dish to share while we enjoy Tyler Perry’s debut film, Diary of a Mad Black Woman. Here's everything you need to know to make it a night to remember.
When and Where
Date: [Insert date here]
Time: [Insert time here]
Location: [Insert location here]
What to Bring
This is a potluck, so the more dishes we bring, the more delicious memories we’ll create together. Think soul food! The kind of food that feeds not just your stomach but your soul. Don't worry if you're not an expert in the kitchen — simple and heartfelt contributions are always appreciated. Here are some soul food-inspired ideas to get you started:
Sample Dish Ideas
Mains:
Southern-Style Fried Chicken with a golden, crispy crust.
Smothered Pork Chops with creamy onion gravy.
Vegetarian Jambalaya, packed with bold Creole spices.
Sides:
Creamy Macaroni and Cheese with bubbling layers of sharp cheddar.
Collard Greens slow-cooked with a touch of smoked turkey or ham hocks.
Sweet Candied Yams with a cinnamon-spiced glaze.
Desserts:
Peach Cobbler with buttery crust and warm spices.
Banana Pudding layered with homemade vanilla wafers.
Red Velvet Cake, moist and topped with tangy cream cheese frosting.
Drinks:
Sweet Tea with a squeeze of fresh lemon.
Classic Lemonade that pairs perfectly with every plate.
Feel free to get creative with your dish or put your own twist on a classic! Be sure to bring enough to share with others, and if your recipe has a story, we’d love to hear it.
The Evening's Feature Film
Once our plates are full, we’ll settle in to watch Diary of a Mad Black Woman — the movie that launched Tyler Perry into stardom. Released in 2005, this impactful film showcases Tyler Perry’s unique ability to blend humor, heart, and healing in one unforgettable story. It’s a mix of drama, comedy, and powerful lessons about forgiveness and self-worth.
The movie introduces us to Helen, a woman whose perfect-looking life falls apart when she’s blindsided by her husband’s betrayal. Forced to start over, Helen's story explores themes of pain, resilience, and redemption, all infused with Perry’s signature touch of faith and humor. Whether it’s Helen’s emotional transformation, the iconic hilarity of Madea’s antics, or the tender moments of grace and self-discovery, the movie is a reminder of the strength we can find in ourselves and the people who truly love us.
About Tyler Perry
Tyler Perry is a visionary filmmaker, actor, playwright, and author, beloved for his larger-than-life characters and stories that speak to the complexities of life in relatable ways. Known for his role as the riotously funny Madea, Perry’s works often highlight faith, family, and resilience in the face of adversity. Diary of a Mad Black Woman marked the beginning of his extraordinary career as one of Hollywood’s most influential figures, bringing underrepresented voices to the forefront and creating stories that resonate deeply with audiences worldwide.
Additional Notes
Be sure to label your dish with its name and any major allergens (e.g., peanuts, dairy, gluten, etc.).
Bring serving utensils if your dish needs them.
Feel free to dress comfortably for a cozy evening!
Don’t forget a blanket or cushion if you’d like to make yourself extra comfortable for the movie viewing.
We can’t wait to celebrate good food, good company, and an inspiring story with you. See you there!