Slay Your Worth: Destiny’s Child Taught Us How to Value Ourselves (Before Self-Care Was Cool)

May 10

Ultimate Anthem of Financial Independence

Listen up, girls! Before self-worth became a hashtag, Destiny’s Child was dropping knowledge that would revolutionize how we think about relationships, friendships, and our own value.

More Than Just a Catchy Tune

“Bills, Bills, Bills” isn’t just a song – it’s a manifesto. It’s about knowing your worth and refusing to be taken for granted. In a world that often tries to dim our shine, this track is a reminder that we deserve partners and friends who contribute, not just consume.

Law of Attraction: Your Relationship Roadmap

Here’s the tea: the law of attraction isn’t just about manifesting – it’s about setting standards. When you vibrate at a level of self-respect, you attract people who match that energy. Think of it like a relationship GPS:

Know Your Value: You’re not a piggy bank or a free meal ticket
Set Boundaries: Real connections are about mutual support
Invest in Yourself: Your growth attracts growth-minded people

Friendship Goals: No Free Riders Allowed

Friendships are investments, not charity. Just like the song calls out a partner who’s all take and no give, the same goes for your squad:

Reciprocity is Key: True friends lift each other up
Financial Boundaries Matter: It’s okay to say no to constant borrowing
Support is Two-Way Street: You’re not an ATM, you’re a partner in success

Deeper Message

Beyoncé and the crew weren’t just throwing shade – they were teaching a masterclass in self-respect. The song is a battle cry for anyone who’s ever felt used, undervalued, or taken for granted.

Empowerment Playlist

So next time you’re questioning a relationship or friendship, ask yourself: Are they paying their bills, or are they just running up your tab?

Pro Tip: Your worth isn’t negotiable. Period.

Slay on, girls. Destiny’s Child said it first – know your value, demand your respect, and never settle for less.

xoxo,

Mitchell Royel

Mitchell Abbott