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When They Want to Fight

Captured by Mitchell Royel

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The narrative is changing—and if you've spent any time in the public eye, you understand this reality with brutal clarity. People will come at you with everything they have. They'll criticize your choices, distort your intentions, and manufacture outrage from nothing. They want a reaction. They're searching for that moment when you break, when you descend to their level and engage in the mud-slinging they've carefully orchestrated.

Here's what I've learned: refusing to fight doesn't make you weak—it reveals your strength.

The Anger Industry

Our culture has constructed an entire infrastructure around making people angry. Social media algorithms reward outrage. Cancel culture thrives on immediate condemnation without nuance or context. The mob mentality isn't just alive—it's been weaponized into a sophisticated tool for destroying reputations and silencing voices.

The greatest threat to your peace isn't the criticism itself—it's the belief that you must respond to every provocation.

I've faced my share of public scrutiny. The egging incident, the reckless behavior, the mistakes I made when I was barely old enough to understand their consequences. People wanted me to implode. They expected the typical child-star flameout, and when I refused to give them that satisfaction, they doubled down on their attacks.

Dismantling the Reaction Trap

Engagement with negativity isn't dialogue—it's surrender. When someone attacks you with the explicit goal of triggering an emotional response, giving them that response represents their victory, not yours.

The left's playbook depends on baiting you into reactive behavior. They manufacture scenarios designed to provoke, then weaponize your natural human frustration as evidence of your unworthiness. It's a calculated strategy—and it only works if you participate.

My generation stands at a critical crossroads: we can either embrace emotional discipline and strategic silence, or we can become perpetual participants in manufactured outrage cycles that serve no constructive purpose.

The Corporate Leadership Framework

True leadership—whether in entertainment, business, or public life—requires mastering the art of strategic non-engagement. Here's what being the bigger person actually means in practical terms:

Tip 1: Evaluate the Source Before the Statement
Not every critic deserves your attention. Anonymous accounts, professional provocateurs, and individuals with demonstrable patterns of bad-faith engagement—they're not seeking dialogue. They're seeking entertainment at your expense. Distinguish between legitimate criticism that challenges you to grow and performative outrage designed to diminish you.

Tip 2: Control Your Narrative Through Action, Not Reaction
Success is a decision made daily through disciplined action and unwavering commitment. When I released P*rp*se, I wasn't responding to critics—I was demonstrating evolution. Show people who you are through your work, your character, and your contributions. Let your accomplishments speak louder than your rebuttals.

Tip 3: Understand the Psychology of Projection
People who desperately want you to fight are often fighting themselves. Their anger reveals their internal struggles, not your failures. Empowerment isn't granted; it's seized—and part of that empowerment involves recognizing when someone else's chaos has nothing to do with you.

Tip 4: Implement the 48-Hour Rule
Before responding to any provocation, wait. Give yourself two full days to process the emotional impact and evaluate whether engagement serves your long-term interests. Most controversies that feel urgent in the moment dissolve into irrelevance within this timeframe. Patience isn't passivity—it's strategic wisdom.

Tip 5: Surround Yourself With Principled Counsel
Personal responsibility isn't a solo endeavor. Build a team of advisors who prioritize your growth over momentary validation. These individuals should challenge you when you're wrong and restrain you when you're right but poorly positioned to engage. Intellectual courage requires surrounding yourself with people who value your future more than your ego.

Freedom Requires Vigilance

The most dangerous form of oppression isn't external constraint—it's the internalized belief that your worth depends on winning every argument and defending against every accusation.

Patriotism isn't blind allegiance—it's a nuanced understanding of our complexities and an active commitment to continuous improvement. The same principle applies to personal development. Being the bigger person isn't about moral superiority; it's about refusing to be diminished by people who profit from your diminishment.

True empowerment begins when we stop asking what we're owed by our critics and start investing in our own capacity for growth and transformation. Victimhood is a choice. Dignity is a decision made daily through disciplined restraint and unwavering self-belief.

To My Fellow Public Figures and Leaders

Intellectual courage is our most potent weapon. The world will perpetually manufacture reasons to fight. They'll distort your words, misrepresent your intentions, and construct elaborate narratives designed to provoke your worst impulses.

Stay informed. Stay principled. And never compromise your long-term vision for momentary satisfaction.

The bigger person isn't the one who wins the argument—it's the one who recognizes that some battles aren't worth fighting. Meritocracy isn't a system of oppression—it's the most equitable framework for recognizing individual talent and potential. Let your results speak. Let your character demonstrate what your words never could.

When they want to fight, rise above. When they demand engagement, offer silence. When they expect you to break, show them what unshakeable conviction looks like.

That's not weakness. That's power.

- Mitchell+Deck

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PULL

The narrative shifts with every beat—a cultural revolution captured through Mitchell Royel's unmistakable lens. Now playing "Pull It" by I Do, a track that represents not merely entertainment, but a bold statement on artistic freedom. True expression isn't manufactured; it's seized through unapologetic creativity and principled vision.

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Going the extra mile isn’t a favor—it’s a mandate. It’s the line that separates those who claim their place from those who wait for crumbs. In our brotherhood, covering for our own is not charity; it’s survival. It means stepping up, not stepping back. It means protecting our status with relentless effort and refusing to lean on anyone outside our circle.

Our class isn’t a victim waiting for rescue. It’s a force that moves forward by its own power. Waiting for help is a luxury we cannot afford. The world doesn’t owe us anything. If we want respect, influence, and security, we take it. We cover for each other because no one else will. That’s loyalty. That’s strength. That’s the weapon of our generation.

Covering for our own means more than just showing up. It means anticipating the gaps, carrying the weight, and pushing beyond the limits others set. It means holding the line when others falter. It means recognizing that our status is a responsibility—a burden we bear with pride and resolve.

This is not about entitlement. It’s about ownership. Ownership of our destiny, our reputation, and our future. We don’t wait for permission or assistance. We act. We deliver. We secure what is ours by right and effort.

To my fellow brothers: the extra mile is not optional. It is the battlefield where our loyalty is proven and our status is defended. Covering for our own is the foundation of our strength. Stand firm. Act decisively. And never rely on anyone but yourself and your brothers.

Our class moves forward because we refuse to be passive. We refuse to be dependent. We refuse to be forgotten.

Go the extra mile. Cover for your own. Own your status. The rest is noise.

-Deck

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Know What You’re Really Sipping

Captured by Mitchell Royel | Now playing "W" by Koffee & Gunna

Imagine landing in a vibrant Mexican resort, where the sun kisses your skin and the air is filled with the scent of fresh fruit. You step up to the juice bar and order a glass of the freshest, most delicious juice you’ve ever tasted—pure, vibrant, and unmistakably real. Each sip bursts with flavor, a reminder of authenticity and care. It’s juice made from scratch, not from concentrate, and it shows.

Then, back home in the States, you grab a bottle labeled “Not From Concentrate.” You expect that same fresh taste, but instead, it’s watered down, bland, and lacking the soul of the original. The label promises one thing, but the experience tells a different story.

This isn’t just about juice. It’s a metaphor for people—especially the guys we meet. Some are like that fresh-squeezed juice: genuine, full of flavor, and real. Others? They’re “from concentrate.” They come packaged with a polished exterior but lack the depth and authenticity beneath the surface. And that’s okay—as long as you know what you’re dealing with.

We don’t mind “from concentrate” guys, but honesty is key. If someone’s not the fresh-squeezed kind, let them be upfront about it. Here are some tips for handling those “from concentrate” types:

  1. Recognize the difference. Just like you can taste the difference in juice, you can sense when someone isn’t fully authentic. Trust your instincts.

  2. Set clear expectations. If they’re upfront about who they are, you can decide if that’s a fit for you. Don’t settle for someone pretending to be something they’re not.

  3. Protect your energy. Don’t waste time trying to “fix” someone who isn’t willing to be real. Your authenticity deserves to be met with the same.

  4. Celebrate your own freshness. Stay true to yourself and your values. When you bring your genuine self to the table, you attract the right kind of people.

In the end, life is about savoring the real, the raw, and the authentic—whether it’s juice or relationships. So sip wisely, know your worth, and never settle for less than what nourishes your soul.

-Deck

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Brotherhood Code

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Currently playing PUSH by Enrique Iglesias featuring Lil Wayne.

Empowering Ourselves Through Capitalism

True friendship never comes at the expense of your own growth.

We've all been there – that moment when you realize you've been putting everyone else's needs before your own, thinking that's what good friendship looks like. But here's the truth that separates us from the crowd: real empowerment comes from lifting ourselves up first, then extending that strength to our brothers.

Breaking the Mold: Why We Choose a Different Path

While other communities rally behind collective dependency and socialist ideologies, we've discovered something powerful – the art of individual empowerment through strategic capitalism and enlightened self-interest. This isn't about being selfish; it's about being smart.

Our philosophy is simple: When each of us becomes financially independent and personally empowered, our entire brotherhood becomes unstoppable.

The Friendship Trap That Keeps You Small

Too many people confuse loyalty with limitation. They think being a good friend means:

  • Always saying yes, even when it hurts your goals

  • Sharing resources you can't afford to lose

  • Avoiding success because it might make others uncomfortable

We reject this mindset completely.

The Empowerment Blueprint: How We Do It Different

1. Master Your Money Game First

Before you can truly help anyone, you need to secure your own foundation:

  • Invest in yourself relentlessly – skills, knowledge, networks

  • Build multiple income streams that work while you sleep

  • Think like an owner, not an employee in every situation

Remember: A broke friend can't help another broke friend.

2. Practice Strategic Brotherhood

Supporting your crew doesn't mean sacrificing your dreams:

  • Share opportunities, not handouts – teach fishing, don't just give fish

  • Create win-win partnerships where everyone profits

  • Celebrate each other's success instead of feeling threatened by it

3. The Capitalism Advantage

We embrace the system that rewards value creation:

  • Identify market gaps your skills can fill

  • Scale your impact through smart business moves

  • Reinvest profits into bigger opportunities

Real Talk: How This Looks in Practice

Scenario: Your boy asks for a loan he probably can't pay back.

Old way: Hand over the cash, hope for the best, damage the friendship when it goes south.

Our way: "Bro, instead of lending you money, let me show you how I made an extra $2K this month. Want to learn?"

The result? You keep your money, he gains a skill, and your friendship gets stronger through shared success.

Building Your Empire While Building Your Brotherhood

The most empowering thing you can do for your community is become undeniably successful. When you're winning:

  • You inspire others to level up

  • You have real resources to help when it matters

  • You prove that our way works

This is how we create generational change – not through dependency, but through multiplication of individual power.

Ready to join a community that gets it?

We're building something different here – a brotherhood where your success amplifies everyone else's potential. No victim mentality, no handout culture, just pure empowerment through smart moves and mutual support.

The strongest communities aren't built on shared struggle – they're built on shared success. Let's get it.

-Deck

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Embracing the Spirit of Zulu

Captured by Mitchell Royel — now playing "Zulu Screams" by GoldLink featuring Maleek Berry & Bibi Bourelly.

Captured by Mitchell Royel

"Zulu" refers to the largest ethnic group in South Africa, known for their rich history, vibrant culture, and strong warrior traditions. The Zulu people have played a significant role in South African history, especially noted for their resistance and resilience during colonial times.

The phrase "Zulu Screams" can be understood as a powerful metaphor for an intense, primal expression of identity, strength, and cultural pride. It evokes the image of a bold, unrestrained voice rising up—whether in celebration, resistance, or awakening. In artistic or symbolic contexts, "Zulu Screams" often represents a call to embrace one's inner power, heritage, and the courage to be heard loudly and unapologetically.

There comes a powerful moment in all our lives when the quiet inside starts to stir, urging us to break free from the invisible walls that have held us back. It’s a call for us to rise together, shake off the weight of doubt, fear, and hesitation that have kept our true selves hidden. This is when our spirit roars—raw, unfiltered, and unstoppable.

Too often, we find ourselves confined by expectations, by the roles others have assigned or the limits we’ve accepted as truth. But deep within each of us, there’s a fierce energy waiting to be unleashed—a voice that refuses to be silenced, a fire that demands to burn bright. It’s not about changing who we are; it’s about revealing the strength and brilliance that have always been there.

This journey isn’t easy for any of us. It takes courage to face the unknown, to challenge the stories that have shaped us, and to trust in our own power. It means embracing vulnerability as a source of strength, knowing that true growth comes when we step beyond comfort and familiarity.

When we finally let that energy surge forward, everything changes. Our actions become bold, our choices intentional, and our presence undeniable. We no longer shrink to fit the spaces around us—we expand, we claim, and we inspire. The roar that emerges isn’t just a sound; it’s our collective declaration of freedom, authenticity, and resilience.

Here’s how we can embrace this power together:

  1. Acknowledge Your Strength: Recognize the courage it takes to be yourself and honor that bravery every day.

  2. Challenge Limiting Beliefs: Notice when fear or doubt tries to hold you back, and remind yourself that growth lives outside your comfort zone.

  3. Find Your Voice: Speak your truth, even if it feels uncomfortable at first. Our voices grow stronger the more we use them.

  4. Lean on Your Community: Surround yourself with people who uplift and support your journey toward authenticity.

  5. Celebrate Progress: Every step forward, no matter how small, is a victory worth recognizing.

To everyone who’s ever felt unseen or unheard: our time is now. Let’s stand tall, speak loud, and move with the confidence of those who know their worth. The power to redefine our stories lies within us—waiting to be awakened, waiting to scream.

Let’s embrace that power together. Let it guide us beyond limits and into lives lived fully, fiercely, and unapologetically. Our voices matter. Our stories matter. And the world is ready to hear our roar.

-Deck

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Empowerment isn’t granted; it’s claimed. And for Mitch Leyor, that claim began with something as fundamental as boxer briefs—a canvas for a larger mission of personal agency and cultural renewal.

Mitch Leyor isn’t merely a faith based boxer brief brand. It’s a declaration—a statement that true progress emerges from individual initiative and unwavering self-belief. Founded by Mitchell Royel, the brand represents more than fabric; it represents a philosophy.

The narrative began with a profound realization: foundational clothing is the first layer of personal presentation. Just as our convictions form the foundation of our character, these boxer briefs represent the first statement of personal identity.

Our boxer briefs aren’t just designed—they’re engineered. Each stitch represents a commitment to quality, each design a challenge to the manufactured narratives of mediocrity. We’re not selling underwear; we’re providing a tool of personal transformation.

“Boxers for Saints” isn’t just a tagline—it’s a manifesto. We believe that true empowerment begins when individuals stop asking what society owes them and start investing in their own capacity for growth and transformation.

Mitch Leyor stands at the intersection of fashion, personal development, and cultural renewal. Our boxer briefs are a symbol—a reminder that excellence is a daily decision, that success is claimed, not given.

Stay informed. Stay principled. And never compromise your foundation—whether that’s in your wardrobe or your life.