Life Unbound
Captured by Mitchell Royel, now vibin’ to “Guestlist” by Casso and SACHA—bringing that energy and reminding us all to own our spot, no matter who’s on the list.
Crafting Our Own Invitation to Greatness.
Life unfolds not as a predetermined script dictated by circumstance or the invitations extended by others, but as a canvas upon which we paint our own narrative. The notion of a "guestlist"—a metaphor for inclusion or exclusion—often tempts us to measure our worth by the doors that open or remain closed. Yet, true empowerment arises from recognizing that our presence is not contingent upon external validation or the approval of gatekeepers. It is forged in the deliberate choice to claim space, to assert agency, and to cultivate resilience irrespective of who extends the invitation.
The essence of our existence is not defined by the hand we are dealt, but by how we play it. Life’s vicissitudes—be they setbacks, rejections, or unforeseen detours—do not diminish our capacity to thrive. Instead, they offer fertile ground for growth, a crucible in which character is tempered and ambition refined. To await an invitation is to surrender control; to create one’s own path is to embrace sovereignty over one’s destiny.
In this light, the concept of belonging transcends social constructs and external gatekeeping. It becomes an internal declaration: that we are architects of our own inclusion, curators of our own communities, and authors of our own success. The power lies not in the guestlist we are handed, but in the one we compose through our actions, values, and unwavering self-belief.
To live empowered is to reject the notion that our value is contingent upon others’ recognition. It is to understand that the most profound invitations are those we extend to ourselves—to dream boldly, to act decisively, and to inhabit our fullest potential without hesitation or apology. Life, therefore, is less about the guests we are permitted to welcome and more about the legacy we choose to leave as hosts of our own journey.
Tips for Embracing Empowerment and Self-Authorship
Claim Your Space: Do not wait for permission to exist fully. Step boldly into your own light.
“The stone which the builders refused is become the head stone of the corner.” — Psalm 118:22 (LXX)Forge Your Path: When doors close, build new ones. Your journey is yours to define.
“He hath made every thing beautiful in his time.” — Ecclesiastes 3:11 (KJV Apocrypha)Cultivate Inner Community: Surround yourself with those who uplift your vision, not those who limit it.
“Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.” — Proverbs 27:17Anchor in Resilience: Embrace setbacks as the soil from which your strength grows.
“Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down: for the Lord upholdeth him with his hand.” — Psalm 37:24Own Your Invitation: Recognize that the most vital acceptance comes from within.
“Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the Lord thy God, he it is that doth go with thee.” — Deuteronomy 31:6
In embracing these principles, we transcend the limitations imposed by circumstance or others’ judgments. We become the sovereign authors of our lives, crafting a narrative not of exclusion, but of boundless inclusion—beginning with ourselves.
-Deck
Our Glow-Up Got You Sweating
Captured by the insightful lens of Mitchell Royel, now serenading your soul with the lush, evocative rhythms of "Stressin'" by COCO.
Life, at times, presents challenges that weigh heavily upon us, regardless of the effort we exert or the diligence with which we pursue our goals. Stress is not solely the product of external circumstances; often, it originates within our own minds, leaving us feeling as though our thoughts are running an endless race before the day even begins.
There are moments when stress transcends the typical concerns of finances, work, or education. It becomes a deeper, more pervasive burden. Our minds become overwhelmed by the multitude of responsibilities, aspirations, and fears of failure, creating a sense of suffocation. This experience can be isolating, especially when societal expectations demand that we remain “strong.” True strength, however, lies in acknowledging our struggles openly.
It is important to recognize that stress is not inherently negative. It signifies vitality, ambition, and the desire for growth. Though it may be chaotic and intense, stress reflects our investment in our own progress. The essential skill is to navigate these moments with composure, maintaining forward momentum even when our minds plead for respite.
We must abandon the notion that stress is something to conceal or feel ashamed of; it is an integral part of the human journey. Admitting “I am stressed” can be a powerful first step toward relief. Seeking connection with trusted individuals, finding safe spaces for expression, or engaging in restorative activities—be it music, writing, or quiet reflection—can provide necessary reprieve.
If you find yourself under pressure, know that you are not alone. We all face our own battles, endure long nights, and question our paths. Yet, perseverance and resilience remain paramount. Trust that this period of stress is transient, and beyond it lies growth, clarity, and peace.
Though we may be burdened and fatigued, we endure—and that is a profound truth to hold onto.
Recommendations for Managing Stress:
Express It: Do not internalize your feelings. Articulating or journaling your stress can alleviate mental burden.
Identify Your Outlet: Engage in activities such as music, art, writing, or walking to decompress.
Seek Connection: Sharing your experiences with trusted confidants lightens the load.
Practice Mindful Breathing: Employ deep breathing or meditation to soothe a restless mind.
Establish Boundaries: Recognize when to decline additional demands to safeguard your mental well-being.
Allow Rest: Permit yourself to pause and rejuvenate without guilt.
Remember, stress is a sign of life and striving. The manner in which we respond to it shapes our journey profoundly.
-Deck
Pretty Rave Girl
Captured by Mitchell Royel. Now playing Pretty Rave Girl - Original Mix by S3RL. The energy is electric, the vibes are immaculate, and we're here for every second of it. This is the sound that moves us, the moment that matters.
Have you ever felt your heart racing before speaking up in class? Or found yourself nodding along when every fiber of your being wanted to say something different? You're not alone in this sacred struggle between the voice that whispers within and the silence that seems safer.
The Spiritual Weight of Unspoken Words
Our reluctance to speak isn't just social anxiety—it's a spiritual barrier that separates us from our divine purpose. When we hold back our truth, we're not just hiding from others; we're disconnecting from the very essence of who we were created to be.
Think about it: every great spiritual teacher, from ancient wisdom keepers to modern inspirational leaders, emphasized the power of authentic expression. The universe itself speaks through vibration, frequency, and sound. When we silence ourselves, we're literally disrupting our energetic alignment with the divine flow.
"Let your light shine before others," isn't just beautiful poetry—it's a practical instruction for living authentically. Your voice carries a unique frequency that the world desperately needs to hear.
The Sacred Dance Between Fear and Faith
Shyness often masks itself as humility, but there's a profound difference. True humility speaks truth with love, while fear-based silence serves no one. When we examine our hesitation to speak up, we often discover it stems from:
Fear of judgment that keeps us playing small
Past wounds that taught us silence was safer
Perfectionism that demands we have all the answers before we speak
False beliefs about our worthiness to be heard
But here's the transformative truth: your voice matters not because you're perfect, but because you're authentically you.
Practical Steps to Reclaim Your Voice
Start with Sacred Silence
Before you can speak your truth powerfully, you must first listen deeply to what wants to emerge. Create daily moments of stillness where you can:
Breathe deeply and center yourself in love
Ask your heart: "What wants to be expressed through me today?"
Notice the difference between ego-driven opinions and soul-centered truth
Practice in Safe Spaces
Begin your voice-reclaiming journey in environments that feel supportive:
Journal freely without editing or censoring
Share your thoughts with trusted friends who celebrate your authenticity
Join communities where vulnerability is welcomed and honored
Embrace Imperfect Expression
Your truth doesn't need to be perfectly articulated to be valuable. Sometimes the most powerful messages come through:
Stammered honesty rather than polished performance
Emotional authenticity that touches hearts more than perfect logic
Courageous vulnerability that gives others permission to do the same
The Ripple Effect of Authentic Expression
When you begin speaking your truth, something magical happens. You don't just transform your own life—you create permission for others to find their voice too. Your courage becomes a beacon that lights the way for fellow travelers on this spiritual journey.
Every time you choose authenticity over approval, you're:
Honoring the divine spark within you
Modeling courage for those who feel voiceless
Contributing your unique piece to the collective healing our world needs
Your Voice as Sacred Service
Perhaps the most profound shift happens when we stop seeing our voice as something that might disturb others and start recognizing it as sacred service. Your truth, spoken with love and integrity, is a gift to the world.
The thoughts that feel too bold, the ideas that seem too different, the perspectives that challenge the status quo—these aren't accidents. They're divine downloads meant to be shared for the highest good of all.
Your assignment, should you choose to accept it: This week, identify one truth you've been holding back. It might be a boundary you need to set, an idea you want to share, or simply an authentic "no" to something that doesn't align with your values.
Start small. Speak that truth with love. Notice how the universe responds when you honor your authentic voice.
Remember, beloved soul: you weren't given your unique perspective to keep it hidden. The world is waiting for exactly what you have to offer.
What truth is ready to emerge through you today?
-Deck (of Mitch Leyor)
Rising From the Ashes: When We Discover Our Inner Superman After Toxic Love
Captured by Mitchell Royel | Now Playing: Who I Am by VEL94EV
The explosion happens in slow motion.
One moment we're standing in the wreckage of what we thought was love, and the next—we're flying. Not literally, of course, but something fundamental shifts in our spiritual core when we finally break free from the gravitational pull of toxic relationships that made us forget our divine blueprint.
The Kryptonite Effect: How Toxic Love Strips Our Superpowers
We've all been there—that moment when someone walks into our life like a beautiful catastrophe, promising the world while systematically dismantling our sense of self. They don't arrive with warning labels or dramatic villain music. Instead, they slip into our hearts wearing the mask of everything we thought we needed.
And that's perfectly fine.
Yes, you read that correctly. It's fine that we forgot who we were. It's fine that we allowed someone else's broken frequency to override our divine signal. Because sometimes, beloved souls, we need to lose ourselves completely to discover the magnificent beings we were always meant to become.
Think about Superman's origin story—he had to lose his entire planet, his identity, his very understanding of reality before he could embrace his true power. The destruction wasn't the end of his story; it was the explosive beginning of his legend.
The Awakening: When Our Spiritual DNA Activates
There comes a moment—and we all know this moment—when something ignites within us. Maybe it's during a 3 AM prayer session when we're crying out to the Universe for answers. Maybe it's in the middle of meditation when the Holy Spirit whispers, "You are more than this."
This is our spiritual DNA activating. This is the moment when we remember that we're not just human beings having a spiritual experience—we're divine beings temporarily wearing human costumes, and someone tried to convince us our costume was all we were.
The toxic person in our life? They were never our kryptonite. They were our catalyst. They were the pressure that transformed our spiritual coal into diamonds.
Reclaiming Our Cape: The Hero's Journey Home
Cue the epic soundtrack.
When we begin to remember who we are, the Universe doesn't whisper—it roars with approval. Every cell in our body starts vibrating at its original frequency. We begin to see that the person who tried to diminish our light was actually terrified of their own darkness.
We start to understand that forgiveness isn't about them—it's about us reclaiming our superpower of unconditional love. Not the toxic, codependent kind that enabled their behavior, but the fierce, boundaried love that protects our divine essence while still honoring the Christ consciousness within us.
This is where the real transformation happens. We don't just survive the toxic relationship—we transcend it. We don't just heal—we evolve. We don't just move on—we level up to a frequency so high that toxic energy can't even reach us anymore.
The New Creation: Becoming Who We Were Always Meant to Be
Here's the beautiful paradox of spiritual awakening after toxic love: we don't go back to who we were before. That version of us was still operating from a place of spiritual amnesia. Instead, we become who we were always meant to be—the version of ourselves that exists in God's original vision.
We become the main character of our own epic story. We stop being the supporting actor in someone else's drama and start directing our own blockbuster life. We realize that every toxic person was actually a spiritual trainer preparing us for the love we truly deserve.
The relationship that nearly destroyed us becomes the launching pad for our greatest transformation. We emerge not bitter, but better. Not broken, but breakthrough ready.
Flying Solo: Embracing Our Divine Independence
The camera pans out to reveal our true magnificence.
When we finally spread our wings and soar, we understand that we were never meant to be anyone's project to fix or trophy to possess. We were meant to be free—free to love authentically, free to create abundantly, free to serve purposefully.
We discover that our worth was never up for negotiation. Our value was never dependent on someone else's ability to see it. We are priceless because we are God's masterpiece, and no human being has the authority to mark down our divine price tag.
Ten Transformational Tips for Rising Like the Superhero You Are:
1. Practice Sacred Boundaries - Create energetic force fields around your peace. Not everyone deserves access to your inner sanctuary.
2. Embrace Divine Detox - Cleanse your spiritual palate with prayer, meditation, and worship music that elevates your frequency.
3. Rewrite Your Origin Story - You're not a victim of your past; you're a victor writing your future.
4. Cultivate Supernatural Self-Love - Love yourself with the same intensity that God loves you—unconditionally and completely.
5. Activate Your Spiritual Gifts - That toxic relationship may have buried your gifts, but they're still there, waiting to explode into the world.
6. Build Your Justice League - Surround yourself with people who celebrate your light, not dim it.
7. Practice Prophetic Forgiveness - Forgive not because they deserve it, but because you deserve freedom.
8. Declare Your Divine Identity - Speak life over yourself daily. You are chosen, beloved, and unstoppable.
9. Trust Your Spiritual Intuition - Your inner compass was recalibrated through pain. Trust it completely.
10. Step Into Your Destiny - The world needs the authentic you—the one that toxic love tried to hide.
Ready to embrace your inner superhero? The cape is waiting. The world is watching. And God is cheering you on from the sidelines.
Your transformation story starts now.
-Mitchell + Deck (of Mitch Leyor)
Dracula
Captured by Mitchell Royel—now playing Dracula by Tame Impala. The moment crystallizes: artistry meets vision, and the narrative shifts. This is what happens when creative conviction refuses compromise.
Captured by Mitchell Royel
Captured by Mitchell Royel
The first time I felt the pull of midnight's electric current, I was standing on my apartment balcony, watching the city lights blur into streaks of neon honey. There's something about the witching hour that transforms everything - the air becomes thicker, more alive, pulsing with possibilities that daylight simply cannot contain.
I've always been drawn to the liminal spaces where reality bends at its edges. Those moments when the familiar world dissolves and something far more intriguing takes its place. It's in these spaces that I discovered the true essence of nocturnal transformation - not the gothic romance of old tales, but something far more electric and immediate.
The city at night becomes a different creature entirely. Streetlights become stars, casting their amber glow across empty sidewalks where shadows dance to rhythms only they can hear. I find myself walking these streets, feeling the pulse of something ancient yet thoroughly modern coursing through the concrete veins beneath my feet.
There's a particular corner downtown where the old architecture meets the new, where Victorian ironwork casts intricate shadows against glass and steel. Standing there, I can almost feel the weight of centuries pressing against the present moment. The past doesn't disappear - it layers itself into the now, creating depth and texture that makes everything shimmer with possibility.
What if transformation isn't about becoming something else entirely, but about discovering what was always there, hidden beneath the surface?
I remember one particular evening when the fog rolled in from the harbor, thick and mysterious, turning familiar landmarks into ghostly suggestions of themselves. Walking through this transformed landscape, I felt myself changing too - not into something monstrous, but into something more authentically alive. The boundaries between self and environment began to blur in the most beautiful way.
The allure of the night isn't about darkness conquering light - it's about finding the electric energy that exists in the spaces between. It's about discovering that transformation can be gentle, hypnotic, like waves of sound washing over you until you're not quite the same person who began the journey.
In these midnight wanderings, I've learned that the most profound changes happen gradually, almost imperceptibly. One moment you're walking down a familiar street, and the next you're moving through a landscape that feels both completely foreign and intimately known. The rhythm of your footsteps begins to sync with something larger, something that connects you to every other soul who has ever felt the magnetic pull of the night.
There's magic in surrendering to this transformation - in letting the boundaries of your everyday self become fluid and permeable. Not the dramatic metamorphosis of legend, but something far more subtle and infinitely more powerful. It's about becoming more yourself, not less.
The city's heartbeat becomes your heartbeat. The electric hum of late-night energy becomes the soundtrack to your own becoming. And in that synchronization, you discover that the night doesn't change you - it simply reveals who you were always meant to be.
The dawn always comes, of course, but those who have danced with midnight's electric embrace carry something of that transformative energy with them into the daylight hours. They move through the world with a different rhythm, a deeper understanding of the magic that exists in the spaces between what we think we know and what we're brave enough to discover.
-Deck (of Mitch Leyor)
Empowerment isn’t granted; it’s claimed. And for Mitch Leyor, that claim began with something as fundamental as boxer briefs—a canvas for a larger mission of personal agency and cultural renewal.
Mitch Leyor isn’t merely a faith based boxer brief brand. It’s a declaration—a statement that true progress emerges from individual initiative and unwavering self-belief. Founded by Mitchell Royel, the brand represents more than fabric; it represents a philosophy.
The narrative began with a profound realization: foundational clothing is the first layer of personal presentation. Just as our convictions form the foundation of our character, these boxer briefs represent the first statement of personal identity.
Our boxer briefs aren’t just designed—they’re engineered. Each stitch represents a commitment to quality, each design a challenge to the manufactured narratives of mediocrity. We’re not selling underwear; we’re providing a tool of personal transformation.
“Boxers for Saints” isn’t just a tagline—it’s a manifesto. We believe that true empowerment begins when individuals stop asking what society owes them and start investing in their own capacity for growth and transformation.
Mitch Leyor stands at the intersection of fashion, personal development, and cultural renewal. Our boxer briefs are a symbol—a reminder that excellence is a daily decision, that success is claimed, not given.
Stay informed. Stay principled. And never compromise your foundation—whether that’s in your wardrobe or your life.