risky business: embracing failure in the age of renewal
oh, darling heart, let's dive deep into the delicious world of risk-taking, shall we? now that we've sage-smudged our lives and lovingly released all that no-longer-serves-us energy, it's time to unfurl our divine wings and soar. like, cosmically soar.
in this luminous new era we're stepping into, it's all about pushing the edges of our comfort zones and getting cozy with the uncomfortable. because here's the truth bomb: growth happens when we're stretched like yoga pants, not when we're nestled in our comfort cocoons.
remember what the good book whispers to our souls? "for God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind" (2 Timothy 1:7). sweetness, that's basically the universe giving you a cosmic permission slip to go forth and manifest your dreams!
in our personal lives, this might look like:
finally birthing that passion project you've been dreaming about in the shower
releasing relationships that don't light up your chakras (even if they're family, love)
trying that wild new dance class that makes your heart flutter with excitement and terror
and in our professional realms? oh honey, the universe is your oyster:
claiming that promotion with the fierce grace of a goddess
pivoting careers because your soul is singing for something fresh and juicy
speaking your truth in meetings, even when your voice quivers like a leaf
now, here's the divine twist: you're going to fail. like, face-plant-into-a-mud-puddle fail. but guess what? that's where the magic sparkles. each stumble is just the universe's way of redirecting you to your true, radiant path. it's all part of the cosmic plan, beautiful.
as the soul-stirring Rumi once whispered, "as you start to walk on the way, the way appears." so take that first wobbly step, knowing that the universe is cradling you in its loving arms.
remember, "we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us" (Philippians 4:13). that includes taking heart-pounding risks, falling on our divinely human faces, and rising again with mascara streaks and a more luminous spirit.
so go ahead, radiant soul. take that leap. fail spectacularly. grow magnificently. because in this new chapter, you're the author, the hero, and the goddess of your own epic, glitter-filled adventure.
now go forth and manifest that greatness, queen. the world is waiting for your light to shine so bright it blinds the naysayers.
love + light + cosmic giggles,
r+b(nm)
when the haters fuel your fire: a divine glow-up
honey, let's talk about the bitches who can't seem to stop throwing shade your way. you know the ones – they're like that annoying pebble in your stiletto, always trying to slow your strut. but here's the gospel truth: those haters? they're your secret weapon, your cosmic cheerleaders in disguise.
scripture tells us, "no weapon formed against you shall prosper" (isaiah 54:17), and baby, that includes every side-eye and whispered critique. it's like they're handing you rocket fuel for your dreams on a silver platter.
think about it. every time they say you can't, aren't you just itching to prove them wrong? that's not spite, that's divine inspiration wrapped in a bow of determination. you're not just rising above – you're ascending to heights they can't even fathom.
"but i say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you" (matthew 5:44). now, i'm not saying you gotta send them a fruit basket, but maybe a little 'thank you' to the universe for the motivation wouldn't hurt. after all, they're working overtime to make you shine brighter.
so next time you hear that whisper of doubt or catch that look of disbelief, smile. your haters are just confused fans, darling. they're watching your movie without understanding the plot twist – that every knock is a boost, every doubt a stepping stone.
you're not just surviving; you're thriving. you're not just growing; you're glowing. and it's all thanks to those unwitting motivators who thought they could dim your light.
remember, the same fire they try to throw at you? that's what's refining you into pure gold. so strut your stuff, light up the room, and let your success be your sweetest revenge.
because, honey, success isn't just the best revenge – it's the most glamorous form of warfare.
-r+b(nm)
embracing the era of flow: journey into harmony
in this sacred dance of life, we're on the cusp of a new dawn—a time where flow becomes our guiding light. flow, that divine state of being where everything aligns, where love and purpose intertwine, is calling us to rise above the chaos and embrace a life of harmony.
imagine being in flow with bae. it's a symphony of souls, a gentle rhythm where hearts beat as one. in this sacred union, we find a love that transcends the mundane, a connection that whispers of eternity. as it's written in ecclesiastes 4:9-10, "two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: if either of them falls down, one can help the other up." in flow, we lift each other, creating a tapestry of love and support.
at work, flow becomes our muse, guiding us to create, innovate, and thrive. it's the sweet spot where passion meets purpose, where our talents are magnified. colossians 3:23 reminds us, "whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the lord, not for human masters." in flow, our work becomes an offering, a testament to our divine calling.
and then, there are our two days off—a sacred pause in the symphony of life. in these moments, we reconnect with our essence, basking in the beauty of being. it's a time to recharge, to find stillness in the chaos. psalm 46:10 gently nudges us, "be still, and know that i am god." in flow, we find peace, a sanctuary where our souls are nourished.
we're moving beyond the distractions and negativity of the past, stepping into a realm where flow reigns supreme. it's a journey of surrender, of letting go and trusting the divine rhythm of life. as we embrace this era of flow, we find ourselves in harmony with the universe, with each other, and with our own souls.
-r+b(nm)
a divine journey to self-discovery: moving on with grace
in the intricate dance of life, there are times when we must gracefully part ways with those who can't accept our boundaries. it's a journey of self-discovery and empowerment, where embracing change becomes a beautiful necessity.
here's how to guide prince charming towards finding his own path to love, leaving us free to embrace our journey:
i'm telling you, recognize our divine worth: remember, we're unique creations, masterpieces in the eyes of the universe. as it's written in psalm 139:14, "i praise you because i am fearfully and wonderfully made." we deserve love that's as genuine as our beautiful souls.
i'm telling you, embrace the cosmic shift: life is a dance of change. it's time to let go of the past and welcome new energies into our lives. ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us, "there's a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens." release the old to make way for the new.
i'm telling you, seek spiritual guidance: turn to prayer and meditation to find peace and clarity. trust that the universe has a divine plan for our love lives. proverbs 3:5-6 advises, "trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding."
i'm telling you, invest in self-growth: focus on our personal development. whether it's learning a new skill or diving into a passion project, becoming the best version of ourselves is always in vogue. as philippians 4:13 says, "i can do all this through him who gives me strength."
i'm telling you, expand our social universe: meet new people through community events or spiritual gatherings. open our hearts to new connections and experiences. hebrews 10:24-25 encourages us, "and let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds."
i'm telling you, practice patience and presence: love is a journey, not a race. be present in the moment and trust that the right person will come along when the time is right. romans 12:12 reminds us to "be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer."
i'm telling you, radiate positivity: our positive energy is magnetic. embrace joy and gratitude, and we'll naturally attract others who resonate with our vibe. 1 thessalonians 5:16-18 advises, "rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances."
i'm telling you, reflect on past lessons: every relationship is a teacher. learn from past experiences to make wiser choices in the future. proverbs 19:20 suggests, "listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end you'll be counted among the wise."
i'm telling you, trust in the divine timing: everything happens for a reason. have faith that the universe is guiding us towards our true path. ecclesiastes 3:11 says, "he has made everything beautiful in its time."
i'm telling you, release with love: let go of what's not meant for us with love and compassion. it's time for both of us to embark on new journeys, filled with endless possibilities. ephesians 4:31-32 encourages us to "be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other."
-r+b(nm)
navigating the sacred path: when our ex-love finds a new soulmate
beloved, let's journey through the valley of heartache's shadow, for "the lord's close to the brokenhearted and saves those who're crushed in spirit" (psalm 34:18). we're treading the delicate path where our former flame, once a bone of our bones and flesh of our flesh, has found new companionship.
as children of light, we know that "love never fails" (1 corinthians 13:8), 'cause it's infinite and ever-expanding. when our ex-partner finds new love, we're called to "be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love" (ephesians 4:2). let's approach this sacred transition with grace and godly wisdom:
honor the covenant of old
"for i know the plans i have for you," declares the lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future" (jeremiah 29:11). our time together was ordained, and now a new chapter unfolds. trust in his divine plan.practice holy detachment
"don't conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind" (romans 12:2). release your grip on what was, and open your heart to what is. this's the narrow path to true liberation.let your light shine
when we encounter our ex's new partner, let's "love one another deeply, from the heart" (1 peter 1:22). speak thus:"may christ's light shine upon you both."
"blessed be this union in the almighty's eyes."
"we bear witness to the path that's brought you together."
examine your inner temple
"search me, god, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts" (psalm 139:23). what emotions arise? what wounds cry out for healing? this's a holy opportunity for spiritual refinement.nurture the garden of self-love
"you're altogether beautiful, my darling; there's no flaw in you" (song of solomon 4:7). meditate upon his word, for "the lord your god's with you, the mighty warrior who saves" (zephaniah 3:17).guard your spiritual borders
"above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it" (proverbs 4:23). while blessing our ex and their new companion, ensure we're unentangled. "create in me a pure heart, o god, and renew a steadfast spirit within me" (psalm 51:10).
beloved, remember we're all walking the path of awakening, for "we know that in all things god works for the good of those who love him" (romans 8:28). our ex-partner's new relationship's but a step in the grand tapestry of existence.
as we navigate this season, let's "be strong and courageous. don't be afraid; don't be discouraged, for the lord your god'll be with you wherever you go" (joshua 1:9). in letting go, we're creating space for new blessings, for "behold, i'm doing a new thing; now it springs forth, don't you perceive it?" (isaiah 43:19).
may we walk in light, love, and eternal wisdom, for "the lord bless you and keep you; the lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; the lord turn his face toward you and give you peace" (numbers 6:24-26).
amen.
-r+b(nm)