We’re Living & Loving in the Moment

Caught in a moment that feels like forever—captured by Mitchell Royel, now lost in "For The Night" with Eppy and Liv Grace Blue, where every second becomes a memory we're meant to keep.

There’s a particular kind of freedom that comes with knowing we don’t have to choose the same path as everyone else. Not because we’re rebellious, but because we’re awake.

We’ve arrived at a moment in history where a woman can build a life of profound meaning and sensuality whether she’s alone or partnered. This isn’t a small thing. This is everything.

Exquisite Solitude

There’s a richness to loving ourselves in real time. To feel the sun on our skin and know that moment belongs entirely to us. To make decisions based on what makes our hearts sing, not on what we’re supposed to want. To build a life that’s a direct reflection of our desires, our values, our vision.

Solo living isn’t a consolation prize. It’s not what we do while waiting for someone else to complete the picture. It’s a full, textured, sensual way of being in the world. It’s waking up and asking: What do I want today? And then giving it to ourselves.

When we’re living for ourselves, every choice becomes an act of self-love. The way we spend our time, the people we invite into our space, the dreams we pursue—they’re all ours. There’s a particular kind of power in that. A particular kind of presence.

Alchemy of Partnership

And then there’s the choice to love someone. To build a life with another person. To create something together that neither of us could create alone.

This too is a choice now. Not an obligation. Not a default setting. A choice.

When we choose partnership from a place of wholeness rather than need, everything shifts. We’re not looking for someone to complete us. We’re inviting someone to complement us. To dance with us. To witness our becoming.

Real love—the kind worth having—happens in the present moment. It’s in the small gestures. The way they listen. The way we laugh together. The vulnerability of being truly seen. It’s in choosing each other, over and over again, not because we have to, but because we want to.

Partnership, when it’s real, is its own kind of freedom. The freedom to be known. To be held. To build something meaningful with another conscious being.

Revolution of Choice

What’s revolutionary about this moment is that we get to decide. We’re not locked into a single narrative about what a woman’s life should look like.

We can be solo and thriving. We can be partnered and free. We can move between these states. We can change our minds. We can honor what we need right now, knowing it might shift.

This is the inheritance of the women who came before us. They fought for our right to choose. And now we get to choose not just whether to be with someone, but how to be—whether alone or together.

Living in the Moment, No Matter What

The real practice—the one that matters—is presence. It’s showing up fully to our lives as they are right now.

If we’re alone, can we feel the aliveness of that? The freedom? The space to become exactly who we’re meant to be?

If we’re with someone, can we feel the gift of being chosen and choosing in return? Can we stay present to the small miracles of being loved?

The moment is always available to us. It doesn’t care whether we’re solo or partnered. It only asks that we show up. That we feel it. That we let it matter.

We’ve come so far. We’ve earned the right to design our own lives. To honor our own desires. To live and love on our own terms.

That’s not just freedom. That’s grace.

The question isn’t whether we should be alone or with someone. The question is: Are we present? Are we choosing? Are we honoring what our hearts are asking for right now?

That’s where the real magic lives.

-Gospel Glamour