Sacred Invitation: Journey of Transformation at Abercrombie & Fitch

In the quiet moments between heartbeats, there exists a profound truth that connects us all—a cosmic thread weaving through the fabric of our seemingly separate lives. My journey began in a place of vulnerability, standing at the threshold of fear and possibility, armed with nothing but raw honesty and a willingness to be seen.

Fresh out of Belair treatment center, living in a sober living house in Reseda, I found myself in a Walmart, purchasing a polo and slacks—not just clothing, but a symbol of my renewed commitment to life. These were more than fabric; they were a testament to my willingness to rebuild, to show up authentically in a world that often demands masks.

When I walked into the Abercrombie & Fitch store, I carried with me not just these humble garments, but the weight of my entire journey. Lexie, the store manager, became more than an interviewer—she became a witness to my transformation. In that sacred space of vulnerability, I shared my truth: recently emerged from rehabilitation, not seeking management, but simply desiring to be part of a culture that might understand the delicate art of human connection.

Her curiosity was not judgment, but an invitation to deeper understanding.

I recalled a moment from my past—a seemingly small interaction at an athletic apparel store in 2014. A customer arrived with incorrectly hemmed leggings. Where many would have seen a problem, I saw an opportunity for compassion. Instead of merely fixing a hem, I offered her a free pair of pants. It was more than a customer service gesture; it was an act of radical kindness.

When I shared this story with Lisa, the district manager, something extraordinary happened. Tears welled in her eyes—not of pity, but of recognition. "This," she said, her voice trembling, "this is what management should be about."

In that moment, I understood that our most profound professional transformations often emerge from our most vulnerable spaces. The universe had extended a sacred invitation, and I had answered with complete authenticity.

My journey as a manager was not without challenges. Like many sacred paths, it was marked by both illumination and shadow. Yet, I came to understand that true leadership isn't about perfection, but about presence. About showing up, exactly as we are, with all our beautiful imperfections.

The little things—a compassionate gesture, an honest conversation, a willingness to be seen—these are the cosmic disruptions that transform not just individual lives, but entire organizational cultures.

We came for transformation—our own and that of the collective. We came to remember, to heal, to create.

With profound love and reverence for your journey,

Mitchell Royel

Fellow Traveler

Reflection Invitation: Can you feel the sacred invitation in your own professional journey? Where might radical authenticity be waiting to transform your path?