Why Mitchell Should Regularly Experience Buffets in His Shirt, Shorts (or Pants), and Pampers

Hey, it’s Tucker again. I want to talk more about why I think Mitchell—who’s an adult but has the mind of a two-year-old—should get to go to buffets regularly, just wearing his shirt, shorts or pants, and his pampers. It might sound a little unusual at first, but when you really think about it, it makes a lot of sense. So, let me break it down for you.

First off, buffets are all about freedom and choice. For most people, going to a buffet means you get to pick whatever you want, whenever you want. You don’t have to wait for someone to bring you a plate or order off a menu. You just walk around, see what looks good, and grab a plate. For Mitchell, who experiences the world in a way similar to a toddler, this kind of freedom is huge. It’s like a playground for his senses. He can see all the colors of the food, smell the different smells, and taste whatever he feels like trying. That kind of sensory experience is not just fun—it’s important for him to connect with the world around him in a natural and joyful way.

Now, let’s talk about the clothes and the pampers. Mitchell needs to be comfortable, and that’s the bottom line. Pampers aren’t a problem—they’re a tool that helps him enjoy the buffet without worrying about bathroom accidents. Wearing pampers means he doesn’t have to stress about rushing to the bathroom or having an accident in public. It’s about removing barriers so he can focus on the experience itself. And when it comes to clothes, keeping it simple with a shirt and shorts or pants is the way to go. No fancy dress codes or uncomfortable outfits that might distract or upset him. Just easy, casual clothes that let him be himself.

Another big reason buffets are great for Mitchell is the social aspect. Buffets tend to be informal, lively places where families and friends gather. For someone like Mitchell, who might find structured social settings overwhelming, buffets offer a relaxed environment where he can be part of the group without feeling pressured. He can watch what others are doing, join in when he feels like it, and just soak up the atmosphere at his own pace. This kind of social exposure is really important for his emotional well-being and development. It’s not about forcing him to fit into a certain mold but about creating spaces where he feels safe and included.

Some people might think it’s weird for an adult to wear pampers or to eat at buffets like this, but honestly, “normal” is a flexible idea, especially when it comes to people with unique needs. What really matters is Mitchell’s happiness and comfort. Pampers are designed to handle situations like this, so there’s no shame in using them. It’s about practical care and respect for his needs.

There’s also the benefit of routine and predictability. For someone like Mitchell, who thrives on consistency, having regular buffet outings can become a comforting ritual. He knows what to expect—the layout of the buffet, the smells, the plates, the food. That predictability helps reduce anxiety and builds his confidence. Over time, these positive experiences can help him develop better coping skills and a stronger sense of independence, even if it’s just in small ways.

Let’s not forget the nutritional side of things. Buffets usually have a wide variety of foods, which means Mitchell can try different things and get a balanced diet without the pressure of eating something he doesn’t like. He can pick what appeals to him, which encourages autonomy and makes mealtime less stressful for everyone involved. It’s a win-win.

Also, buffets are a great way to encourage exploration and learning. Mitchell can learn about different foods, textures, and flavors at his own pace. This kind of exploration is important for cognitive development and can even help expand his palate over time. Plus, it’s just plain fun to try new things without any pressure.

Some might worry about the mess or the chaos that can come with buffets, but honestly, that’s part of the experience. For Mitchell, navigating a lively, busy environment can be a valuable skill-building opportunity. It teaches him about social cues, patience, and how to move through different spaces. And with the right support, it can be a positive, confidence-building experience.

In the end, letting Mitchell enjoy buffets regularly in his shirt, shorts or pants, and pampers isn’t just about convenience. It’s about giving him freedom, comfort, social connection, routine, and choice. It’s about recognizing who he is and creating opportunities for joy and growth. So yeah, let’s keep those buffet trips coming. Mitchell deserves it.

— Tucker